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When sex and success are incompatible

With this title I found so attractive an article in the supplement to the New York Times giving El Pais. I have not found online in English, but the series of articles to which it refers: " Female Factor" or the female factor is publishing the New York Times in English here:

global.nytimes.com / femalefactor

I tell you what it is: The article begins by telling a scene from the series Sex and the City, where Miranda goes to a round of speed dating and the first 3 guys who sit with her run off when Miranda says he is a lawyer specializing in business. The room tells a different story: that is a stewardess. And "voila" the boy asked for an appointment.

Is that success is not sexy?

Now that women are catching up to men in regard to training and labor market, the roles traditionally assigned by gender we are changing. The article has several cases:

• a woman who earns 5 times more than her husband, but in public as it is he who takes the credit card and pay it all. She says "It makes me laugh. If it makes you happy, I do not care."
• a husband who leaves his job to accompany his wife when she rises much in your company and becomes master of the house, no problem.
• a directive to her boyfriend suggested it changed jobs because he was unable to "seduce" when she began to win more than him.
• a banker to leave her husband for a therapist because "she would have more time for him."

Bernard Prieur, psychoanalyst, notes that men who earn less than their partner socially and personally feel vulnerable because they face thousands of beliefs and stereotypes that they feel is he who must support the family. And with the success of their partners feel they have failed them personally. Go panorama When they could cheer for us!

Woman gives tips for being a successful woman and family leaves the company car home on the first date, is your man before turning 30 (ie before you have much success) and you see the men as a source of confidence is not the money , including academics and artists.

I think that we should not reach working age to find this: a successful woman at any age will be difficult to find a partner who does not "take this wrong" she is an exceptional.

I (not being an off-set) I had a partner who abused me psychologically because they bear I take out better grades than him ...

And the example of Miranda, unfortunately I have checked on my skin, if in full disco said that studying physics or electronic engineering scurried away. And one night to "see what happened" I told a group of boys studying hairdressers (hairdressers forgive me) and I could remove the top or with a spatula.

These small experiments made for fun (I'll note that I never had a one-night, that my stuff or I will not interest me ...) now the "biggest" make me realize all the implications of what he had. How was testing a post power, a position of responsibility scares many men.

Luckily I'm a boy sun is off the charts and who supports me and encourages me to proceed. It is true that we have very different activities, but never any couple as he had supported me:) So we hope working women, hehe. Someone who loves us and understand us and understand that we have to work until late and we have to study further. Girls

workers of the world:

We can do it!